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The Relational breath of Union part 1. Eros in the realm of Hungry Ghosts.
In Buddhist cosmology, the hungry ghost (preta) symbolises desire that cannot be satisfied, craving severed from nourishment. In this breath, it mirrors eros that has lost its ethical ground and capacity for care. The Story of Bluebeard (An Archetypal Map) *As mentioned in the book "Women who run with wolves" by Clarissa Pinkola Estes. Bluebeard is a man of immense charm and wealth. He is cultured, articulate, magnetic. There is only one thing about him that unsettles people
Sandra O Ortiz V
7 days ago7 min read


The Breath of Contraction: Where the soul learns how to stay
Before the light appears, there is a night that knows how to hold us In those times there are no names to call it, no inspiration, no certainty. Only breath. Breathe, and let the Beloved stay with you in the place where staying is hard. Let the Beloved whisper to you, very softly: This, too, belongs. Longing has been felt in the heart, and inner listening has begun to guide it toward change, even before the heart fully recognises what it needs. When longing is ignored, the he
Sandra O Ortiz V
Jan 105 min read


The Descending Breath in the relational space. The erotic threshold where intention, readiness, and yearning begin the opening toward union
The lotus does not rise by rejecting the mud. It opens because the dark waters knew how to hold it. This is the descent of sacred intimacy, where readiness gathers in silence, and the flower opens by trust. Descending.... The earth breathes through us, a soft gravity in the pulse. We lean downward falling... following to the ancient call Nearness changes our weight. Breath gathers low, lower still, guiding us toward gates gracefully opening readily moistening. Warmth invi
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 23, 20255 min read


The Descending Breath. Where the soul walks into its own night to find the seeds of dawn
The descent is not weakness. It is life-force learning how to move in the dark. Like the horse, the soul does not fall, it enters the night with breath, instinct, and trust. Let us step softly now, beloved, down into the hidden valleys of your being. There is a field waiting underground, where the seeds of remembrance have been sleeping in silence. Ya Rahīm, wrap our descent in Your Mercy. Before the lamp of the heart is lit, before the inner niche glows with Divine Light (
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 16, 20256 min read


The Relational Breath of Presence. On Erotic Awareness, Sacred Gaze, and Meeting in the Field Between Two Hearts
In every true moment of intimacy, the first touch is not of skin to skin, but of presence to presence. These hands remind us that the erotic begins in the space-between, where longing softens, truth awakens, and the Beloved breathes two hearts into one field. Take a breath, both of you. In intimacy, Presence is something you offer inwardly to yourself, and something you extend to the beloved, but most of all, it is what you offer to the field between you, the unseen space w
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 10, 20257 min read


The breath of Sacred Presence and inner sight. To Witness and be witnessed: An Invitation into the Field Where Healing Already Exists.
A solitary monk sits in the quiet chamber of his heart, surrounded by gentle candlelight. No words, no effort , only presence. This is the inner sanctuary where the Beloved meets us in silence, where the ache softens, the breath slows, and the soul remembers it is never alone. May this image be a doorway for you —into your own chamber of stillness, where Presence is already waiting. We have journeyed through the longing ( https://www.elespiraltherapy.cothe-breath-of-longing )
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 7, 20254 min read


THE LISTENING BREATH BETWEEN TWO HEARTS. Relational Spiral and Sacred Sexuality. An Intimate Invitation Into Erotic, Spiritual, and Relational Attunement
Shinto Torii Path. The Torii gates mark the passage from the ordinary into the sacred. Each gate is a breath. Each is an inner doorway. Listening begins when we step inward. There is a moment in your relationship when longing softens and listening opens. Not the kind of listening that waits a reply, or to fix, or to quickly understand, but the kind of listening that receives. The listening that happens with your breath, with your chest, with your hands and with your silence.
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 4, 20255 min read


The Listening Breath. On Prophetic Listening and the Healing of the Heart
Ammonite Fossil, an ancient spiral formed through time, a symbol of inward listening, layered memory, and the quiet movement of the soul. There is a moment on the spiral when longing softens into listening. Not listening with urgency, not with the mind that analyses, but with the heart that receives. This is the Breath of Listening. It is the breath that turns us inward, not downward or upward, but along the curve of the spiral, where every silence holds a direction. Between
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 2, 20253 min read


Relational Spiral and Sacred Sexuality. The Breath Between Two Hearts. On Sacred Relationship and the Erotic as a Path of Return
Artwork: “The Swan, No. 24” (1915), oil on canvas, from Group IX: The Swan, by Hilma af Klint There is a moment on the spiral when the inner longing that awakens the heart begins to move outward toward another. Just as the soul leans forward toward the Beloved within, the heart also leans toward the beloved in front of us. This is the Breath Between Two Hearts , the breath that widens the spiral from inner remembrance to shared presence. Where Two Hearts Meet Every relation
Sandra O Ortiz V
Nov 30, 20253 min read


The Breath of Longing
Image: “Aarakta Shyam” (2012), acrylic on canvas, by S. H. Raza . Ya Fattāḥ, The Opener remind us of the nectar we once tasted, and through it, unfold for us the path we are meant to take. The breath of longing is the one that gives birth at the void place of the spiral, the first tremor of the spiral. It begins at the moment the soul leans forward, moved by an old echo and is drawn by a breath it has not yet remembered but wants to be seen, to be acknowledged. Within us ther
Sandra O Ortiz V
Nov 28, 20253 min read


The Beloved and I, breathing... Living through the Breath of the Beloved. An Invitation
There is a way of breathing that is more than survival, it is remembrance.
Every breath carries a trace of the Divine Breath placed within us at the beginning of creation. This opening reflection invites you to step barefoot into the inner landscape of the heart, to breathe with presence, with tenderness, and with the quiet awareness that you come from somewhere holy.
This is not a list of instructions, but a spiral of remembrance, a gentle return to the Beloved, breath by b
Sandra O Ortiz V
Nov 27, 20253 min read


It is always about Love….
#OneDay, #Love, #Therapy, #RelationshipTherapy, #InvididualTherapy, #Netflix, #Connection My daughter came to me and told me: “mum, I...
Sandra O Ortiz V
Mar 6, 20244 min read


On breathing and intimate connection
So, when I have made him and have breathed into him of My spirit . . . Qur'an 15:28-29 Our breath is our constant companion, it is the...
Sandra O Ortiz V
Jan 9, 20223 min read


Relationship, intimacy and the capricious lover
“There is enough light for one who wants to see” Imam Ali (AS) Foundations have been laid now that will aid the exploration and curiosity...
Sandra O Ortiz V
Jan 2, 20223 min read


The Gentle Path: On Intimacy, an introduction
Intimacy denotes a kind of connection with someone in which one is open to be vulnerable enough in an interchangeable manner, meaning...
Sandra O Ortiz V
Jan 1, 20223 min read


On Heart’s Presence: an introduction
“If you want to know where your heart is, see where your mind goes when it wonders” Imam Ali (AS) So much has been written on presence,...
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 30, 20213 min read


The Universe enfolded within you
“Your sickness is from you, but you do not perceive it. And your remedy is within you, but you do not sense it. You presume you are a...
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 29, 20212 min read


The beginning: On Intention
Intention is constantly happening, but not always we are aware of it. Intention is not the goal we would like to achieve, intention comes...
Sandra O Ortiz V
Dec 29, 20203 min read
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